Magic Words in Relationships.

It is not so much about etiquette but more towards sharing these beautiful and powerful words that we often underestimate what it can bring to our relationship. It is never too late to say it to whomever that has meaning in your life.

The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship. These are just three little BUT VERY POWERFUL words. 

Say it and mean it from your heart..as.."what the heart gives away is never gone ... It is kept in the hearts of others".

 

1. I'LL BE THERE

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be  there."
 

Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we're truly present for other people, important things happen to them & us.  We  are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

 2. I MISS YOU

Perhaps more marriages could be saved & strengthened if couples simply &  sincerely say to each other "I miss you."

This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired & loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

 3. I RESPECT YOU

Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds & become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

 4. MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT

This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting may be "I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view.

They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational
manner.

5. PLEASE FORGIVE ME

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness.

All of us are vulnerable to faults and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

6. LET ME HELP

The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

 7. I THANK YOU

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of
friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of  gratitude.  

 

8. COUNT ON ME

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people.

Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."

 9. I UNDERSTAND YOU

People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing relationship. This applies to any relationship.

 10. GO FOR IT

We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their
dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

 11. I LOVE YOU

Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs - the need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little
words  "I love you."

 And now, the most important of ALL three little words "...GOD BLESS YOU..."

 

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